Working With Mom

Working with my mom — Mom and I in holding for Chicago Med

One of the fun things about my experience as an extra is working with my mother, Nancy. Working with mom is super fun and I’m hoping to do more of it.

Working With Mom

Mom and I have only been able to work with each other twice. The first time we both worked on Chicago Med. The scene was at the gorgeous Bloomingdale Home Store which

used to be the Medinah Temple. It’s a Chicago landmark that now has a new life thanks to Bloomingdales turning it into a store in 2003. So that was pretty cool, being able to be in the store after hours. For Chicago Med, it was supposed to be the department store owned by the character Cornelius Rhodes, the father of one of the principals, Dr. Connor Rhodes.

But the scene never made it into the episode! Mom and I were pretty amazed that with all of the work that went into that scene, it wasn’t used. It must have cost a fortune to rent the building and pay all of the cast and crew, including us–although we don’t make much at all. And we were right behind the actors, center scene, pretending to shop while they spoke at a table. We thought for sure you would be able to spot us on the show. In fact, I haven’t yet seen myself on any show, which is fine as they still pay me. But in all honesty, it would be pretty cool. I’m sure it will happen soon enough.

Best Mother/Daughter Duo Around

At least we think so! We do look quite a bit alike so if production is looking for a mother/daughter duo, we’re perfect. Hopefully, production will think so too. The second time we worked together was just this week on Proven Innocent, a Fox show that will air beginning in February, 2019. It’s so nice having someone to hang out with during those long hours in holding. I have only lived in the same area as my mother in the last five or so years so it’s super special that she is taking the time to share in my new little endeavor. She’s even worked on her own, driving herself into the city from her home in the Northwest suburbs. Thanks Mom! I love working with you!

The Buffet

I told you about my first call with 300 other extras. My second job, however, only had about 40 of us and it is here I found out about the buffet.

The Buffet

I was surprised on my first job that the other extras were complaining that they hadn’t been fed yet. They finally gave us a boxed lunch. It was okay. But since I wasn’t expecting anything I was pretty happy. I had no idea that you usually get a meal when you work. So it was on my second job, which was for a Netflix show called Easy, that I discovered the buffet. There is always a caterer on set and a meal is almost always provided. Most of the time.

It really depends on how long you work and also, the hours you work. I haven’t really figured out all the ins and outs but all in all, I have eaten quite well since starting my life in the background. And I’m going to have to tame it down a bit. Unfortunately, I need to lose some weight and having all the good food right in front of me isn’t helping. In addition to a good buffet meal, they sometimes bring in pizza. Pizza is also not a good thing for my waist line. But when you’ve been working and you’re beginning to become hangry, it’s pretty hard to turn it down.

The Buffet healthy choice — My healthy choices! I’m so proud of me.

Commit to healthy eating

There are some healthy options that I will need to stick with if I don’t want to gain another ten pounds. There is always a salad bar option and quite often, there is a fish option. And you can usually find some great vegetable dishes too. This picture shows the healthy meal I had last week when working on Proven Innocent, a Fox mid-season release coming soon. So, if I can focus on those foods, I should be able to stay on tract. Except for the dessert table. Walking by that is going to be a struggle! If you look closely at the picture, there is a small slice of chocolate cheesecake. Who can pass up chocolate cheesecake?! And as far as pizza goes, I will either have to keep some healthier options in my bag or at least limit my portions. But I do love pizza!

How do I find more work?

I’ve been working steadily about once a week for the past couple of months. But how do I find more work? I would love to work at least 2 or 3 times a week and I know it can be done because I talk to people who do so. So this post is here to brainstorm ways of finding more work.

How do I find more work?

These are the top 5 ways that I have learned so far in finding work as an extra. Hopefully we’ll be able to increase this list when my blog goes public and will, hopefully, have some readers who know more than I do about the background artist industry.

1. Keep your profile up to date.

As I stated in the previous post, 4 Star Casting has an online POP Profile that you should complete as thoroughly as possible. This includes all of your sizes! Yes, get out that tape measure. You will need it. Be sure to update the availability calendar too. I’m not sure but I suspect it’s an algorithm that spits out who is available and generates availability checks. So marking yourself as available might be better than leaving the dates blank.

2. Keep your photos up to date and change often.

You need to have current photos of how you look now. I would love to provide pictures from ten years ago when I was younger and skinnier but they need to see what you look like right now. And don’t keep sending the same photos over and over. Give the casting agents various photos in various styles. You should have a business look, an evening wear look, a casual look, and any other look you can think of. I’ve seen posts looking for homeless types, so even a no-make-up, very sloppy dirty clothes look would be appropriate.

3. Bring along good wardrobe choices.

You should always have at least 3 choices of outfits for the wardrobe person to choose from. Don’t bring super bright colors or crazy patterns unless asked to. Pay attention to the wardrobe notes and bring appropriate choices. You wouldn’t want them not to hire you again because you are known for showing up with either bad choices or no choices.

4. Follow the casting agency’s social media and try and submit as quickly as possible to any listings.

Most of the agencies that I know of at this time post calls on their Facebook pages. You can set your FB to see those posts first or to have a notification if there is a post from them. I really wanted to take a social media break during this crazy political climate but that is the only way I can find jobs. Maybe I should have a Facebook account that I only use for following the casting agencies. What do you think?

5. Pay attention on the set and listen to all directions.

They’re not going to want to work with you if you are not going to listen to what they need from you and do it without complaining. You know you’re an extra, not the star of the show, so don’t expect to be treated like one. Of course we should all be treated fairly and in my experience, I have been. But I have seen some people who act like they’re doing the show a huge favor by being there. Remember, it’s a job. Do your job.

Let Me Know

Let me know what you think about the above 5 ways to find more background acting jobs. How do I find more work? has been my question since I began this journey and I hope to add to this list as I go along. Any additions would be greatly appreciated.